Runyue 2025-08-13 Response
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Reader:In the past, when I described events and answered questions, I tried to view issues from different angles and perspectives, then synthesize them to express the state of the matter itself.
However, a friend directly told me that they felt I was like an AI… calling me a robot, because in our interactions, they felt a lack of human emotions such as greed, jealousy, desire, and anger, only sadness and joy.
Sometimes I wonder if their feeling is due to my excessive demand for 100% objectivity and factual accuracy. An absolutely objective expression without personal subjective feelings makes it hard for others to sense human emotions and resonate with me.
Runyue:Sometimes, others’ feedback may not necessarily reflect one’s own issues; it can merely reflect their preferences.
However, using neutral expressions for accurate descriptions does not mean I lack feelings—I still express myself passionately, with intonation and emotions naturally flowing with the expression. Emotions are infectious, and those who can interact emotionally will not come across as machines.
Additionally, whether others’ evaluations are attacks on oneself also requires deep self-awareness. Some are indeed attacks, while others may be an overreaction of self-defense.
If people around you often use derogatory and implicitly attacking language, be cautious about whether you have fallen into a manipulative trap and become a “blood bag.”
Some attacks arise simply because we did not meet others’ expectations, did not provide the emotional value they wanted, or did not satisfy their needs, thus receiving their “retaliation.”
In such cases, there is no need to doubt or be dissatisfied with oneself; instead, it is more important to understand how to set boundaries, protect oneself well, and use healthy and flexible techniques to cope, or even counterattack.
Reader:Thank you for your suggestions and reminders.
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